Let's set the stage:
You've said the vows, you've had your first kiss as a married couple, you've officially done the thing - you're married! Now it's time to walk back down the aisle together as your families cheer and your photographer runs backwards capturing you in all of your newly wedded joy. So what happens next?
I honestly couldn't count how many times I've had couples reach the end of the aisle and look over at each other (or at me!) because they didn't know what to do next. I'm the queen of rolling with the punches, so I'll always give a subtle prompt for the newlyweds to kiss or to throw their hands up and cheer, and this typically produces great walk out photos. However I can definitely attest to the power of a good rehearsed exit and the photos it lends itself to!
A couple tips from a wedding photographer who's been around long enough to see lots of different approaches to the ceremony exit :
Tip #1: Have a plan.
Eliminate any unnecessary confusion by preparing your people! The wedding party should know exactly when to begin walking out, and in what order. Do you want the bouquet handed back to you before it's time to walk down the aisle? If you want to pause for a picture with your guests behind you, are we stopping halfway down the aisle or right before you get to the doors?
Tip #2: Practice practice practice!
A dip, a big celebratory cheer, or a dramatic, movie style kiss are all amazing options, and they all make for great photos! Practice at home to ensure that you can dip or be dipped safely, and if you can practice at the venue, even better. Communicate your plan with your photographer so they know what to expect.
Tip #3: Pick a fun song!
Dancing your way down the aisle is fun and functional! Not only does it set the mood for the reception to come, but it also slows the procession down a bit, which gives your photographer more opportunities for photos. Sometimes the walk out can be a little rushed due to nerves, excitement, and honestly a little lack of planning of that part of the ceremony. Why not make it fun?
Tip #4: Don't overthink it. (I know, I know)
At the end of the day, weddings are almost always just 24 hours of controlled chaos. We plan and we plan but sometimes the chips fall how they do, and with a supportive, experienced team behind you - that's okay! If you get to the end of the aisle and you forget to do anything you rehearsed, don't fret! I PROMISE we will still get amazing photos! And if you find yourself really really really wanting a dip photo, we can go back and make it happen.
